An enabler in most definitions, a person who through his or her actions and allows for a certain command. Most often the term enabler who people to behave in ways that are destructive of love is associated with permission. For example, an enabler of an alcoholic wife may continue to provide her husband with alcohol. A person is a compulsive gambler or an enabler to cost them to borrow money to get out of debt.In this fashion, although enabler acting out of love can help or trying to save a person, he Or maybe he really is like a bad addiction is a chronic problem. Continue to lend money to gamblers, for example, gamblers do not have to face the consequences of their actions. Someone there to bail him out of trouble and enable its continued behavior.The term enabler is part of the broader definition of codependency. Codependency in the first definition of adaptive behavior a person if he or substance abuse or severe emotional problems can make living with someone with as arose. It remains a codependent, because he or she adapts to or ignores the ill person's behavior. In fact, often codependent becomes an enabler because it allows less to be involved in a conflict.
